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Automation[Nurture] LYS — Webinar Attendee (Apr 9)Automation ID69Automation status at exportInactive (raw: 2)CampaignWojo webinar attendee 3Campaign ID773Campaign status raw1Message ID713SubjectThe 5 things that actually matterPreheaderI tried to teach this Thursday. Here's what I was trying to say.From nameJackie DormanFrom emailemail@jackiedorman.comReply-toemail@jackiedorman.comCreated2026-04-11T21:39:57-05:00Modified2026-04-11T21:43:31-05:00Exported2026-05-14T03:23:13.798Z
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Hey %FIRSTNAME%,
I taught this framework on Thursday — or tried to, through the frozen slides.
Here's what I was trying to say:
When most people look for a partner, they optimize for the wrong things. Chemistry. Convenience. Whether they can see a future together in vague, dreamy terms.
None of those are bad. But none of them are enough either.
The matchmaker's framework — the one I've used with thousands of clients — looks at five things and only five:
1. Character — Who they are when no one's watching.
2. Capacity — Can they actually show up right now, not someday.
3. Compatibility — Do your actual lives fit together.
4. Conviction — Are your deepest values aligned.
5. Community — Do they have people worth knowing?
Everything else is noise.
I've put together a whole training inside Last Year Single that walks through all five in detail — with real examples, real questions to ask, and real ways to evaluate what you find.
I'd love for you to have access to it.
GET THE FULL FRAMEWORK INSIDE LYS → https://go.jackiedorman.com/checkout
No more guessing. Just a real map.
- Jackie Dorman
Founder, Last Year Single™
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